A Memoir in True Stories

This Could
Happen to You

Both the Good and the Bad. The joys and struggles of one ordinary, blessed life.

Wow, this really could happen to me, or to someone I love.

by Tom Midkiff
A collage of Tom Midkiff's family across the years
The Midkiff family, across the years
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Some stories are joyful.

Some are hard to tell.

All of them are true.

This is a book about the moments that shape a life, the people who stay, and the quiet grace that carries us through both the good and the bad.

Author Tom Midkiff
Morgantown
West Virginia
Meet the Author

Tom Midkiff

Born in the early 1960s to a loving West Virginia family, Tom has spent a lifetime paying attention to the things that matter: faith, family, friendship, and the honest truth of everyday life. A retired State Farm agent with a career that ran through finance, insurance, and the nonprofit world, he now writes the stories he has been living all along.

He and his wife Jennifer have been married nearly forty years. Together they raised three daughters and, today, count five grandchildren with another on the way. This Could Happen to You is his first book, and his invitation to see your own life inside his.

BS
Winthrop University
MBA
West Virginia University
39 yrs
Married to Jennifer
I promise to tell the truth in my stories, and to give my opinion honestly, from my values and my life. Tom Midkiff
This Could Happen to You book cover
This Could Happen to You · Tom Midkiff
The Book

This Could Happen to You

Both the Good and the Bad  ·  The Joys and Struggles of Life

A collection of true stories from a life fully lived, told plainly and from the heart. Tom writes about the people who shaped him, the seasons that tested him, and the faith that held it all together. Every chapter is an honest look at how quickly life can turn, for better and for worse, and how much grace there is to be found in both.

Self-Help & Memoir
Genre
Standalone
First Book
All Ages
For Readers
His Story

A West Virginia life, one road at a time.

Follow the path that became the book, from a boy who was always the new kid to a grandfather counting his blessings.

  1. Young Tom in West Virginia
    Early 1960s

    A West Virginia boy

    Born to a loving family with two younger brothers. Plenty of playing, plenty of fighting, and always defending one another.

  2. The move to Ohio
    Mid 1960s

    Under Lake Erie

    Dad took a job in the salt mine beneath the lake, so the family moved to Ohio. By fifth grade Tom had already attended seven schools, always the new kid.

  3. Back home in West Virginia
    1973

    Finding home

    Back in West Virginia, Mom and Dad bought their first house. A neighborhood full of kids, and a best friend named Keith who is still like a third brother today.

  4. Tom and Jennifer
    1987

    Jennifer

    He met the love of his life while working at McDonald's. They married that September, and this year marks nearly thirty-nine very happy years.

  5. Tom's three daughters
    1991 to 1996

    Three daughters

    Leah, then Erin and Rachel. The family came back to West Virginia to raise the girls close to their grandparents.

  6. Building a career
    2000 to 2006

    Building a life

    An MBA from West Virginia University, then a new calling as a State Farm agent, serving neighbors and building something that lasted.

  7. A hard season
    2021 to 2023

    Hard seasons, and home

    Tom retired to care for his mother and mother-in-law, both of whom passed that year. In 2023 he and Jennifer moved to Morgantown to be near their kids and grandkids.

  8. The whole family today
    Today

    Blessed

    A beautiful wife, three lovely daughters, two fantastic sons-in-law, and five grandchildren with one on the way. Tom will tell you he is blessed, and he means it.

Inside the Book

Five stories,
one honest life.

Life will hand you the good and the bad. What you do with both is the whole story.

Honesty. Compassion. Opinion. Tom Midkiff
Invite Tom

Bring these stories to your church, school, or group.

Tom is glad to speak with book clubs, congregations, schools, and libraries about family, faith, and finding grace in the hard seasons.

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