Both the Good and the Bad. The joys and struggles of one ordinary, blessed life.
Wow, this really could happen to me, or to someone I love.

Some stories are joyful.
Some are hard to tell.
All of them are true.
This is a book about the moments that shape a life, the people who stay, and the quiet grace that carries us through both the good and the bad.

Both the Good and the Bad · The Joys and Struggles of Life
A collection of true stories from a life fully lived, told plainly and from the heart. Tom writes about the people who shaped him, the seasons that tested him, and the faith that held it all together. Every chapter is an honest look at how quickly life can turn, for better and for worse, and how much grace there is to be found in both.
Follow the path that became the book, from a boy who was always the new kid to a grandfather counting his blessings.

Born to a loving family with two younger brothers. Plenty of playing, plenty of fighting, and always defending one another.

Dad took a job in the salt mine beneath the lake, so the family moved to Ohio. By fifth grade Tom had already attended seven schools, always the new kid.

Back in West Virginia, Mom and Dad bought their first house. A neighborhood full of kids, and a best friend named Keith who is still like a third brother today.

He met the love of his life while working at McDonald's. They married that September, and this year marks nearly thirty-nine very happy years.

Leah, then Erin and Rachel. The family came back to West Virginia to raise the girls close to their grandparents.

An MBA from West Virginia University, then a new calling as a State Farm agent, serving neighbors and building something that lasted.

Tom retired to care for his mother and mother-in-law, both of whom passed that year. In 2023 he and Jennifer moved to Morgantown to be near their kids and grandkids.

A beautiful wife, three lovely daughters, two fantastic sons-in-law, and five grandchildren with one on the way. Tom will tell you he is blessed, and he means it.
Life will hand you the good and the bad. What you do with both is the whole story.
Tom is glad to speak with book clubs, congregations, schools, and libraries about family, faith, and finding grace in the hard seasons.
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